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          clean his penis with soap and water
        
        
          during normal bathing.
        
        
          The eyes have it
        
        
          These precious organs need proper
        
        
          care and good hygiene. Dampen a
        
        
          cloth or cotton ball with a little bit
        
        
          of warm water. With the baby’s eyes
        
        
          closed, gently wipe the eyes from the
        
        
          inside to the outside corners. Use a
        
        
          different part of the cloth or a new
        
        
          cotton ball for each eye.
        
        
          That new baby smell
        
        
          Unless your baby’s nose is dirty, you
        
        
          don’t need to clean it. You don’t have
        
        
          to clear a stuffy nose either, but it
        
        
          will probably make it easier for your
        
        
          baby to breathe, eat and sleep. Get
        
        
          a rubber bulb
        
        
          syringe, which
        
        
          generally works
        
        
          pretty well. Start
        
        
          by squirting a
        
        
          little nasal saline
        
        
          into your child’s
        
        
          nose to moisten
        
        
          and loosen
        
        
          up the mucus
        
        
          before you try to
        
        
          suction it out.
        
        
          Hear, hear
        
        
          Simply clean
        
        
          the outer part of
        
        
          your baby’s ears
        
        
          with a cotton
        
        
          swab moistened with oil or peroxide,
        
        
          or a washcloth moistened with warm
        
        
          water during the bath. Never insert
        
        
          a cotton swab or anything else into
        
        
          your baby’s ear canal; you could
        
        
          easily puncture the eardrum that
        
        
          way. Earwax is nature’s protection
        
        
          for the ear canal, and there’s usually
        
        
          no reason to try to get it out of your
        
        
          baby’s ears. If you’re concerned about
        
        
          a build-up of earwax, ask your baby’s
        
        
          doctor about it.
        
        
          Say, “Ahhh”
        
        
          To clean your baby’s mouth, wet a
        
        
          clean cloth or gauze with clean warm
        
        
          water and then wrap it around your
        
        
          index finger. Using the cloth, gently try
        
        
          to remove the white coating or patches
        
        
          on your baby’s tongue (milk residue)
        
        
          and gently massage the gums. Clean
        
        
          regularly and thoroughly, but gently.
        
        
          Bathing beauties
        
        
          There’s no need to bathe your baby
        
        
          every day. Instead, it’s typically OK
        
        
          to bathe her two to three times per
        
        
          week – any more often and you risk
        
        
          drying out her skin. Focus on the
        
        
          face, hands and nappy area, just
        
        
          washing the dirty areas.
        
        
          Because young skin is more
        
        
          delicate, it’s more susceptible to
        
        
          becoming dry. To prevent and help
        
        
          dry skin conditions, cut bath time
        
        
          down to about ten minutes. Use
        
        
          warm water – not hot – and soap
        
        
          up sparingly. Once you take your
        
        
          child out of the bath, quickly pat
        
        
          her dry with a towel, and then apply
        
        
          moisturiser immediately. Applying the
        
        
          moisturiser within minutes of taking
        
        
          your child out of the tub will seal in
        
        
          the moisture from the bath.
        
        
          Heads up
        
        
          Don’t wash your baby’s hair every
        
        
          day – there’s just no need, particularly
        
        
          with newborns. Aim for a quick
        
        
          shampoo when you bathe your baby,
        
        
          which doesn’t need to be more often
        
        
          than a couple of times a week.
        
        
          If your baby has cradle cap
        
        
          – a common, but harmless, scalp
        
        
          condition that will eventually go away
        
        
          on its own – then you can massage
        
        
          your baby’s head with your fingers
        
        
          and baby shampoo to help loosen
        
        
          the scales. Do not rub, or you might
        
        
          irritate the skin. Before you rinse off
        
        
          the shampoo, brush your baby’s hair
        
        
          with a soft baby brush to remove the
        
        
          loose scales.
        
        
          Baby bits
        
        
          As a general tip, change your baby’s
        
        
          nappy as often as possible to avoid
        
        
          irritating that sensitive skin with
        
        
          faeces and urine. You can also use a
        
        
          nappy rash cream to create a moisture
        
        
          barrier to help prevent nappy rash.
        
        
          Gently clean the skin with wet
        
        
          cotton or wipes, from front to back
        
        
          to avoid spreading germs. Be sure to
        
        
          gently clean in the folds and creases
        
        
          of their skin. If your baby boy is
        
        
          uncircumcised, don’t try to retract the
        
        
          foreskin. The foreskin may not be able
        
        
          to retract for several months or even
        
        
          years, since it takes this long for the
        
        
          foreskin to separate from the penis. If
        
        
          your baby boy is newly circumcised,
        
        
          Aim for a quick
        
        
          shampoo when
        
        
          you bathe your
        
        
          baby, which
        
        
          doesn’t need to
        
        
          be more often
        
        
          than a couple of
        
        
          times a week.
        
        
          When teeth erupt, you should
        
        
          start cleaning the baby’s teeth twice a
        
        
          day. At first, just use a piece of gauze
        
        
          moistened with water to wipe plaque
        
        
          from your baby’s teeth and gums. Once
        
        
          your baby has several teeth, you might
        
        
          try using a small toothbrush with just
        
        
          two or three rows of very soft bristles.
        
        
          Once your child turns one year, you
        
        
          can start using a stage one toothpaste.
        
        
          Tiny talons
        
        
          The best time to cut baby’s nails is
        
        
          right after a bath, when the nails are
        
        
          softest. Use a pair of baby scissors or
        
        
          clippers made especially for use on
        
        
          tiny fingers. Press the finger pad away
        
        
          from the nail to avoid nicking the skin,
        
        
          and keep a firm hold on your baby’s
        
        
          hand as you clip.
        
        
          While cutting tiny
        
        
          nails, be careful not to
        
        
          over-trim– keep a thin
        
        
          white area extending
        
        
          from the nail.
        
        
          A little off the top
        
        
          In some cultures,
        
        
          parents shave a
        
        
          newborn’s head; in
        
        
          others, it’s customary
        
        
          to wait until a child
        
        
          can speak to cut
        
        
          his hair for the first
        
        
          time. So, there’s
        
        
          no hard and fast
        
        
          rule regarding first
        
        
          haircuts. But, in general, waiting until
        
        
          your baby is able to support his head
        
        
          on his own while you hold him on
        
        
          your lap will make that first haircut a
        
        
          lot easier on everyone involved.
        
        
          If your baby has a lot of hair and
        
        
          you feel it needs trimming before you
        
        
          want to take him for a professional
        
        
          haircut, you can do the job yourself
        
        
          at home. Just be prepared for a less-
        
        
          than-perfect outcome. A good, clean
        
        
          pair of shears will make it easier to cut
        
        
          quickly and evenly – old scissors can
        
        
          pull hair, causing uneven cuts.
        
        
          
            Jeanne Hauguel is a mother of two and
          
        
        
          
            doula who helps families through birth and
          
        
        
          
            post-partum. To learn more tips like these,
          
        
        
          
            join her Babies Essentials antenatal classes
          
        
        
          
            in Causeway Bay. Learn more at
          
        
        
        
          
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